Where for art thou little girl.....

So I think Hayleigh is going through the teen change where parent's suck.  This week has been the second time she has this something about her that she is above me.  I am not sure what it is, perhaps I have spoiled both of my kids to the point where they think they can look down on their parents?  Not sure but I sure hope I figure it out soon.  She reminds me of the popular girls in school that everyone hated because they seemed so out of touch but when you talk to them they were so nice.  Except she shouldn't be that way, not with her mother anyway.  Fine I am not cool, it's not cool to share stuff with your mom, this I know...but it really hurts at the same time.  I am hoping that is what this phase is and not something worse I am missing.....