Could not ask for more

I have to say that I really do have the best kids.  I know most parents think that of their own but for me it is more true than anything else I know.  I am always doing homework at home when I am not at school.  They don't expect me to cook them a hot meal.  They are ok with finding something on their own to eat every night.  When I am really tired and want to go to bed early guess what....I do! They take their showers, do homework and ready themselves for bed without me hounding them,  I love that they are independent but on the other hand I wonder if it is something I should fault myself for.  They shouldn't feel like they HAVE to do things on their own all the time.  It is a tough balance I know. I really appreciate what they do for me and how they are,  They give my love back 100 x infinity.  I guess I am just hoping that this really isn't a negative situation for them that I am putting a positive spin on.